Who Wants You To Win?
This could be parents, friends, a significant other, kids… could be anyone. Usually the more “Cheerleaders” that you have the better!
Who Tears You Down?
These are the people that don’t want you to win.
Maybe it’s because they don’t think it’s possible… maybe they love you and are worried for you because you are doing something they aren’t familiar with.
Maybe it’s someone who is jealous of your dream. Seeing you really “going for it” makes them realize how small they are playing.
Maybe it’s someone who you’ve had conflict with in the past.
Surround Yourself with Support
On so many occasions I’ve called my parents to say Hi.
And they are always there, firmly behind me – “Go Julie Go!!!”
Mentally, Are You With Your Cheerleaders Too?
When I’ve gone through tough times, I might be physically with my kids, my husband, my friends.
Yet my mind is racing, thinking about the nasty people in my life, the unfavourable situations.
How sad is that?
I’ve got my beautiful children surrounding me, yet I am silently brooding, thinking “Oh, I should have said this”. Even though I am physically with my kids, in every other sense I am still with that person who wants me to lose – mentally, spiritually, pschologically. I might as well be physically in the same room as them.
It’s not Just Physical
So be aware of where your thoughts are, just as much as where your body is. Being fully present with your Cheerleaders means to be fully present – 100% of you – not just the physical.
Love and Encouragement
So find your Cheerleaders, give them love and encouragement as they do the same for you.
This will make all the difference in your life, in your Real Estate Investing…. especially in the tough times.